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  • 正向關係:99句教子好句
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  • 並列題名:Positive parenting : 99 phrases to your kids
  • 作者: 蔡惠雲著
  • 出版社:新雅文化
  • 出版年:2013[民102]
  • ISBN:9789620858659
  • 格式:PDF
租期14天 今日租書可閱讀至2021-10-12

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常言道:「養兒一百歲,長憂九十九!」
經常跟子女說這99句話,做到恩威並施,取代長憂九十九年。

《正向關係──99句教子好句》一書中收錄了99句建議家長在管教培育孩子時使用的「好句」。作者蔡惠雲認為正向親子關係是教養的基礎,也是孩子快樂及成功的基石。父母要教養好子女,不能只有說道理這一招,而是需要跟子女在情感上連結,才能引導他們。

本書所運用的原則除包含麥道衛博士(Dr. Josh McDowell) 的6A品格教育原則外,還包含「兒童為本遊戲治療」與孩子相處的八大原則,以及兒童發展心理的理論,能幫助對絕大部分正常發展的兒童建立自信,更可應用在較難處理的,如患有過度活躍症、有自閉症特徵或比較退縮的兒童上。

蔡惠雲Stella Choy

擁有香港大學社會科學系輔導學碩士(優異)學位、香港大學言語及聽覺科學榮譽理學士學位,並已修畢香港大學碩士程度的遊戲治療訓練及臨床督導實習課程,對於兒童的心理、情緒、行為及社交發展有相當的認識。從事遊戲治療師、心理輔導員及言語治療師多年,專長為兒童遊戲治療和親職教育。

現為兒童雜誌及報章撰寫專欄,以及為《荷花》育兒親子網及《小跳豆》幼兒雜誌擔任專家顧問,並為父母、老師及專業人員多次主領親子關係、遊戲治療課程。

  • 前言(第iii頁)
  • 推薦序 1:情趣與管教共融 / 羅乃萱(第vi頁)
  • 推薦序 2:與孩子說話的學問 / 周婉芬(第vii頁)
  • 自序:正向親子關係乃教養的基礎 / 蔡惠雲(第viii頁)
  • 好句之最:10 句最重要、對家長最有用的好句(第17頁)
    • 1. 我需要考慮吓。I need to think about that. (情緒智能 / 責任感)(第18頁)
    • 2. 你覺得好悶。You feel bored. (情緒智能 / 自尊感)(第20頁)
    • 3. 咁你點做好呀?Then what shall you do? (手足之情 / 責任感)(第22頁)
    • 4. 你好努力! Excellent effort!(自信心)(第24頁)
    • 5. 勞煩你檢查。Check your work.(責任感)(第26頁)
    • 6. 恭喜你。Congratulations.(逆境智能)(第28頁)
    • 7. 你幾多歲? How old are you?(責任感 / 自制力)(第30頁)
    • 8. 健康理由,要食菜,你食一條定係三條? For health reason, you need to have vegetables. You choose one or three?(自尊感)(第32頁)
    • 9. 仔仔,對唔住,我應承咗你⋯⋯,但我冇做到,令到你好失望。我自己都覺得慚愧,我唔會再咁樣,請你考慮原諒我。Boy, I am sorry for promising to... but I didn't make it, you feel disappointed. I am ashamed of myself, I won't do it again. Please consider to forgive me. (情緒智能 / 責任感)(第34頁)
    • 10. 嘩! Wow !(責任感)(第36頁)
  • 安全感(第39頁)
    • 11. 我都好唔捨得你! I don't want to leave you neither!(第40頁)
    • 12. 我喺呢度。I am here.(第42頁)
    • 13. 放學見! See you after school!(第44頁)
    • 14. 你好驚見唔到媽媽。 You are scared you can't see Mommy anymore.(第46頁)
    • 15. 我好愛你! I love you!(第48頁)
  • 自制力(第51頁)
    • 16. 頭唔係用嚟撞。Head is not for banging.(第52頁)
    • 17. 呀,我叫一聲你就過嚟。Oh, I called you once and you came.(第54頁)
    • 18. 企。拖住媽媽隻手。Stand. Hold my hand.(第56頁)
    • 19. 停。Stop.(第58頁)
    • 20. 安靜一分鐘。Be quiet for one minute.(第60頁)
    • 21. 唔知邊個嘅小朋友喊? Don't know whose kid is crying like this?(第62頁)
    • 22. 你開始收斂,係自控,我鍾意。You started to stop crying, it's self control, I like it.(第64頁)
    • 23. 轉彎之前要等埋媽媽。Wait for mom before turning the corner.(第66頁)
    • 24. 仲有 5 分鐘我哋就要離開呢度。We still have 5 minutes, then we'll leave here.(第68頁)
    • 25. 練習。Practise.(第70頁)
    • 26. 你嘅安全係我嘅任務。Your safety is my mission.(第72頁)
    • 27. 但爸爸 / 媽媽唔係用嚟打。 But Daddy / Mommy is not for hitting.(第74頁)
  • 自尊感(第77頁)
    • 28. 你揀呢件衫定係嗰件衫? You choose this clothes or that one?(第78頁)
    • 29. 我聽到你講乜嘢。I hear you.(第80頁)
    • 30. 你同唔同我合作? Do you want to cooperate with me?(第82頁)
    • 31. 你揀大聲喊定係細聲喊? You choose to cry loudly or softly?(第84頁)
    • 32. 你要坐低喊定係企喺度喊? You want to sit down or stand up to cry?(第86頁)
    • 33. 呢句話喺邊度聽番嚟?聽邊個講嘅? Where did you hear this phrase? Who said that?(第88頁)
    • 34. 呢句係大話,好抱歉,我當冇聽過,請你再講過。This is a lie,so sorry, I assumed I haven't heard it. Please say again.(第90頁)
    • 35. 你可以揀自己開門或者我開門。You can decide to open the door by yourself or I open the door for you.(第92頁)
    • 36. 你好想知道。You really want to know.(第94頁)
    • 37. 你好掛住爸爸。You miss Daddy.(第96頁)
  • 自信心(第97頁)
    • 38. 你記得之前嚟過呢度。You remember you've been here before.(第98頁)
    • 39. 你觀察得好好! Good observation!(第100頁)
    • 40. 你唔鍾意媽媽唔畀你飲汽水。You don't like mom not allowing you to have soft drinks.(第102頁)
    • 41. 你覺得呢? What do you think?(第104頁)
    • 42. 嘩,你自己嘗試用筷子夾魚。Wow, you tried to use chopsticks by yourself.(第106頁)
    • 43. 唔,點樣開呢? Well, how to open?(第108頁)
    • 44. 逸逸。(孩子的名字)Yat Yat.(Child's name)(第110頁)
    • 45. 你真係好可愛! You are so lovely!(第112頁)
    • 46. 你好鍾意車。You like cars very much.(第114頁)
    • 47. 你好鍾意自己畫嘅畫! You like your painting!(第116頁)
    • 48. 你好滿意自己製作嘅手鏈!覺得好靚! You are satisfied with the bracelet you made! You think it's pretty!(第117頁)
    • 49. 你識寫 1、2、3 ! You know how to write 123!(第118頁)
    • 50. 唔,你知道呢度要拉! Well, you know you need to pull here!(第119頁)
    • 51. 你知道煮嘢食要用油! You know you need oil to cook!(第120頁)
  • 責任感(第121頁)
    • 52. 講真實事件。Tell me the truth.(第122頁)
    • 53. 凡有問題,必有解決。 When there's a problem,there's a solution.(第124頁)
    • 54. 係你製造嘅問題,點解決? You created the problem, how to solve it?(第126頁)
    • 55. 你自己着襪呀! You wear your socks on your own!(第128頁)
    • 56. 做兩頁功課, 要幾多分鐘? Two pages of homework, how many minutes do you need?(第130頁)
    • 57. 我尊重你。I respect you.(第132頁)
    • 58. 對時間有控制,自己負責。Have time control, you took the responsibility.(第134頁)
    • 59. 咁你點算好? What shall you do?(第136頁)
    • 60. 你準備好未? Are you ready?(第138頁)
    • 61. 你準備好就話我知。Tell me when you are ready.(第140頁)
    • 62. 你可以決定。You can decide.(第142頁)
    • 63. 我哋呢家人講誠實說話,上午講誠實說話,下午講誠實說話。In this family we speak the truth, in the morning we speak the truth, in the afternoon we speak the truth.(第144頁)
    • 64. 你自己開到個泥膠蓋。You opened the playdoh can by yourself.(第146頁)
  • 自律(第147頁)
    • 65. 幾點鐘?要做咩? What time is it? Time for?(第148頁)
    • 66. 仲有 30 分鐘就沖涼。You still have 30 minutes before a shower.(第150頁)
    • 67. 你識珍惜食物! You know how to treasure the food!(第152頁)
    • 68. 你識禮讓人! You know how to consider others' need!(第154頁)
    • 69. 你識同人分享! You know how to share!(第156頁)
    • 70. 今日星期幾? What’s the day of the week today?(第158頁)
    • 71. 我好欣賞你自己攞功課出嚟做。I appreciate that you can do your homework by yourself.(第160頁)
    • 72. 你自己揀。You can choose.(第162頁)
    • 73. 而家幾多點? What time is it now?(第164頁)
  • 手足之情(第167頁)
    • 74. 幫。Help.(第168頁)
    • 75. 你唔鍾意媽媽抱弟弟! You don't like mom to hold little brother!(第170頁)
    • 76. 我知你好嬲弟弟推跌你啲模型,但弟弟唔係用嚟打。I know you are mad at brother who knocked off your blocks, but brother is not for hitting.(第172頁)
  • 情緒智能(第175頁)
    • 77. 你整得佢好痛,你識講對唔住。You hurt him and you managed to say sorry.(第176頁)
    • 78. 你覺得點樣? How do you feel about that?(第178頁)
    • 79. 你覺得好奇怪⋯⋯ You feel strange that...(第180頁)
    • 80. 好多謝你講畀我聽你好驚。Thank you for telling me you are scared.(第182頁)
    • 81. 揀一個好啲嘅選擇。Make a better choice.(第184頁)
    • 82. 好,我應承會考慮。上牀瞓覺前告訴你答案。Fine, I will consider. I will reply you before you go to bed.(第186頁)
    • 83. 你學到乜嘢? What have you learned?(第188頁)
    • 84. 係呀,生命係咁。Such is life.(第190頁)
    • 85. 做完功課先睇電視。Then you can.(第192頁)
    • 86. 食完飯先食糖。/ 食完飯先食蛋糕。Then you can.(第194頁)
    • 87. 有時唔小心係會打爛嘢。Sometimes things will break.(第196頁)
    • 88. 有時啲嘢係會跌。Sometimes things fall off.(第198頁)
    • 89. 你好傷心而家要離開! You are upset that you need to leave now!(第200頁)
    • 90. 你好嬲媽媽要熄電視! You are mad that Mommy has to switch off the TV!(第202頁)
    • 91. 唔,你好驚,頭先發噩夢,我喺度。You are so scared, you have a nightmare just now. I am here.(第204頁)
    • 92. 你好想再去。You want to go again.(第206頁)
    • 93. 對唔住,我頭先好大聲講嘢,令到你好驚。I am sorry for speaking so loudly just now, I made you feel scared.(第208頁)
  • 逆境智能(第211頁)
    • 94. 唔,你好努力⋯⋯! Well, you tried hard to...!(第212頁)
    • 95. 你覺得好難。You feel it's difficult.(第214頁)
    • 96. 你已開到少少! You've already opened a little bit!(第216頁)
    • 97. 呢次你未能將波射入,下次再嘗試吧!我信你有能力做得到。This time you can't score, try next time! I believe you can do it.(第218頁)
    • 98. 真可惜,你輸咗呢個遊戲! What a pity, you lost this game!(第220頁)
    • 99. 你只係欠缺練習。You just lack practice.(第222頁)
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